Being a person that is so fond with developed overseas lifestyle and experienced a couple of years in Canada. I wondered why I didn't end up with Caucasian or people who have stayed there for ages.
For this, maybe I can use an example from me. Before that, I have to go back to my family history a bit. I were brought up in a Buddhist family who hold this belief. No sex before marriage. I've been input with the effect and how it will affect us in the future life; if we had sex before the marriage and such and such... Thus, it sticks in mind forever... I believe that it's not happened to me. It happens in most of the family.
Back to the belief again, in developed country, if u didn't get laid when you are 17 or 21, then you must be some geek or similar to that. In another words, they believe in this free sex thing. Well, I didn't say that all of them believe and apply this free sex. However, most of them are.
Well, what am trying to share here is. I don't think that it's bad to have free sex as long as u have a safe play. I tend to agree that people move in together before they get married. What is the point of getting married if it ends up to divorce?
2 comments:
SIL.., if no sex after marriage, then I won't have any nephews loooooooooh~
Hehheh..
haha.. thanks for the correction...
It was too rush yesterday... didn't recheck that.. lol
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