Sunday, March 8, 2009

Risks of Having Chilren

Is that a must to have a child in every marriage life? In every marriage life, most of the couples would like to have at least one child.

Reasons are varied from inheritance to hope to belief. Inheritance maybe for those people who are wealthy enough that might need someone to inherit their wealth. Meanwhile, some people need children so that their children can take care of them when they get old. Others are for egoism reasons, as every marriage need to have children, if they don't have, then something is wrong.

Actually having children are a mixer of a little bit of risk, worry, and happy. Starts from pregnancy, delivery, and till the end of our day. During the pregnancy, we are already worried if the fetus is going to be complete, fine, healthy, etc. Same thing during the delivery time. Will be both baby and mother turns out to be alright.

Dave was hospitalized on Friday night as the fever reached 39 Celsius plus. He had the infusion which is a very sad thing to see. He was wrapped with blanket and there were 4 nurses needed to hold his hand during the infusion time. Meanwhile, me and Mr. held his feet and tried to calm him. He`s very strong. The sad thing was to see him crying while looking at me and asking for help.

He`s hospitalized for 3 days and 2 nights. The doctor said that fever normally caused by 2 things, which are virus and bacteria. Dave`s fever was caused by a very light virus. Respiratory virus. The doctor didn`t give any medicine. Only infusion. Anti-biotic is also not necessary as it's not caused by bacteria.

Honestly, it kinda makes me worry to give Dave a sibling. As worries will be there as long as we alive.

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