End of the year or beginning of the year is just like the trend of Medan people to get married. For this few months, we attended quite a number of wedding party and most of them were like 'wow'.
During the wedding reception, normally the MC will ask the groom what makes him ready for the marriage. From so many wedding that I have attended, and from so many answers that I have heard. I really think this one is the best. The groom said that marriage is like climbing mountains. It's very risky and it's a tough job. In order to be able to make it up on top, you need to prepare things and use the correct tools. Now, since he has found the bride whom is the correct partner; thus he's ready for the marriage.
In my mind, normally people will get married when they think they have dating for quite a while, or when they are old enough and scared that people will talk bad about them that at certain age still being single, and so on.... They never really think that marriage is not the end... it's the beginning... they prepare for the wedding party and such and such... but they never prepare for the life.. the marriage life...
It was mentioned in a book that Marriage is a suicide... LOL... What do you think...?
Marriage is the unity of two people become one... but the actual problem comes when you are starting to decide which one that you are going to follow... lol...
Great wedding party doesn't mean that the couple is going to have a great marriage life. But again, how do we define great marriage life? In my life, there a few couple that I think and I see as the real soul mate....
2 comments:
Wise Man said:
"Woman married a man expecting he would change, but he didn't.
Man married a woman expecting she wouldn't change, but she did."
Yeah... that's very true.... ^^
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