Wedding Ceremony

I came across Lilysan Wijaya's blogspot. I kinda know her as we went to the same school in Medan at Sutomo I; but I think she's my senior, 1 year above me. She is a wedding organizer now. "I do" is such a neat and nice name for a wedding event organizer. Very creative. However, it's not the point though.

From what I saw from a few perfectly planned weddings. There are several things that come in mind:

1. The couples need to know each other / dating for quite a long period.
   Couples have more memories and common things that do together that can be use a summarization during the wedding ceremony. It must be wonderful. Besides that, friends know one another existence for a longer period and this is good for the party as a party won't be something without friends acknowledgment.
   
2. A real long and niche planned about the weddings.
   Lots of things need to be prepared for the wedding. So, people tend to think that it's easy to have the wedding ceremony. Indeed, you need to think one year or more in order to have a neat preparation. Starts from the disagreements in choosing things to use in the wedding, unless you let only 1 party to decide everything.
   
3. Need to have same perceptions of what to have from a wedding.
   If one party wants to have a classic wedding meanwhile another party wants to have modern wedding. Of course this is not going to work out. In this case, I would suggest that parents stay out. Wedding is about the couples, but in Medan, most of parents are involved in it.


4. Of course, willing to spend lotz for the wedding ceremony.
   The last and the most important thing. Those luxuries wedding ceremony are only capable for those people with lots of cash. Some people willing to spend hundreds millions of Rupiah just the one-day ceremony. Some will think further as, is it necessary to spend a lot for the things that we never gonna know how it ends. (happy ending or divorce)

Above written are just my perceptions. Of course there are pros and cons also. Feel free to write comments.