It seems like I have been stagnant in updating my blogs. Again, there are so many ideas wandering around in my mind, but I never pour them out. I have been so lazy in writing and ideas come while I were driving... ^_^
Dave is turning exactly 9 months in 2 days time. Apparently, he still not able to sit, stand, or crawl by himself yet. I realize that each baby is unique. I hope that slowness in his learning in these phases won't affect his learning skills when he grows up.
Talking about Dave, Vv's delivered last Tuesday. It's a boy, baby Ethan. Welcome to the world baby Ethan. ^_^
I went to visit Vv in the hospital. I saw lots of cute newborns and pregnant ladies on my way to the patient's room. I still can't imagine how I could go through all that with my first pregnancy.
Yes, Vv's in pain also (she did c-section). I wonder if I will be able to bear my second child one day...
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Friday, July 4, 2008
You Can Never Change an Individual...!!!
I kinda feel that I am in a deep shit 'coz of having a thought like "I hope he will change towards better personality with the time flies". If you have that thought, please change the way you think before it's too late. Well, it might be true that some people will change. But how long is it going to take. Will you able to wait for those time?
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
When Life is in the Junction...
I wonder how people should react towards things that happen to them.
I also wonder in what position should a person be, giver or taker.
When someone is in the junction, and already decides which path that he or she is taking. Suddenly the person realizes that it is no longer a single decision that he or she can decide alone. There are other parties that need to be involved in the discussion before he or she is really taking the path. Then, the best solution is to have a discussion.
However, not all the time discussion will come to a conclusion. When a discussion cannot reach a conclusion, absolutely argument is there. What happen if the arguments lead to something that is worse than you can imagine?
Should that person still go with the path that he or she wants; with conditions that things might not be the same again. The arguments might lead to some point which is terrible.
However, if the person step back in the discussion and cancel to take the path that he or she wants. Then, he or she will not enjoy the rest of her days until certain time that is not measurable. It might be forever. Since, time already flies and there are certain things that people cannot do once he or she reaches certain age. Assume that the characteristics of this person is not easily satisfied with things.
We know that it is not easy when you have to work with other people. That's why when you went for an interview, team work question always arises. What should you do if this person is you?
I also wonder in what position should a person be, giver or taker.
When someone is in the junction, and already decides which path that he or she is taking. Suddenly the person realizes that it is no longer a single decision that he or she can decide alone. There are other parties that need to be involved in the discussion before he or she is really taking the path. Then, the best solution is to have a discussion.
However, not all the time discussion will come to a conclusion. When a discussion cannot reach a conclusion, absolutely argument is there. What happen if the arguments lead to something that is worse than you can imagine?
Should that person still go with the path that he or she wants; with conditions that things might not be the same again. The arguments might lead to some point which is terrible.
However, if the person step back in the discussion and cancel to take the path that he or she wants. Then, he or she will not enjoy the rest of her days until certain time that is not measurable. It might be forever. Since, time already flies and there are certain things that people cannot do once he or she reaches certain age. Assume that the characteristics of this person is not easily satisfied with things.
We know that it is not easy when you have to work with other people. That's why when you went for an interview, team work question always arises. What should you do if this person is you?
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