Things Happen for a Reason...

Things happen for a reason...!!!
Do you believe this...?? I believe it, that's why I seldom fight for the things unless I really have to; even though I know that I really like it or deserve it. I just believe that I don't get those things at this moment because God is arranging another better plan for me... sounds silly..??

Well, I suddenly pick up this topic is because my sister-in-law is delivering today. It's an urgent, she has to go for c-Section. She doesn't really choose to go for c-Section, but then God has another planned for her... I don't really follow what had happened.

The point is, we did plan to travel to HK way before this (btw.. it's Idul fitri long holiday... ) and had booked the tickets. It's on wait list still, but we had alternatives and we just didn't feel like having the spirits to get the tickets...

If we insisted to go to HK, then it's going to be complicated as father-in-law (FIL) for sure will force mother-in-law (MIL) to fly to KL asap; and more story.... ^^ It's just so coincidence that we didn't get the HK tickets and we stay at home... thus.. when we heard about the sudden c-section... FIL already commended MIL to go to KL immediately... and mom is otw to airport now... flying to KL....

Long Lost Friend...

I haven't met Mega for more than a decade. We lost contact somewhere in 1997, after the riot in Indonesia, she then moved to Australia for her high school. Recently, we are connected through this Facebook thing. Hm... pros and cons from facebook thing...

Then she said that she's going to pay a visit to Medan. I gave her my number and she called me up. Then, we fetched her up and we went for Starbucks at Sun Plaza. Well, what to expect when you just want to have a talk... coffee shop is always the best place... ^^Luckily, there's a place for us as it's Idul Fitri holiday... So, it's pretty much not that crowded at Sun Plaza...

It's very kind of Mr. to help me carrying Dave around. We went there with Mr's friend also. So, Mr. offered to take care of Dave and he went to Sunshine for a drink with his friend. Mega and I can catch up things... ^^

After 12 years... I thought that there are none to be talked about. Apparently, there are plenty to discuss and share... She's still the same Mega back at the school... Ambitious and know what she wants in life... We sat with one another for a few years.... Started from Junior high school...


You just never know when u are supposed to meet up with someone you know before or someone that is going to be your friend... Things happen for a reason... ^^

Dave 23 Months

Another present for Dave in his 23 months...^^ Not a real present... he fell down and hurt his lips... Pooor Dave...


In his 23 months, Dave's front teeth are started to decay. Grandpa starts to buy him snacks, candies, and cold drinks. He is able to understand things and would like to accept negotiation. He takes condition and rewards things... Good for him and easy for us...
Well, there is time when he gets really stubborn and it's very hard for us to control things too...

He is able to make 3 words sentences like "home sweet home", etc. Besides that, he is able to remember and pronounce his classmates names.

He knows how to read and recognize numbers 1-12.. the rest is still in progressing.

His pattern is like taking nap from 1 or 2 till 3 or 4 or 5 sometimes. Then, the worst is, he is sleeping at 11 in the evening...

The evil face of him....

Until now, his favorite number is 2... ^^

Respect your mother... Remember the...

Respect your mother... remember the pain labor that she went through...?? It is either c-Section or normal... They are equally pain.... 9 months carrying in the tummy... take care of you from the first day you were born until today... You demand to drink every 2 hours... a few times poo in a day... tried so hard to make u stop crying... and so on....

Those are the common sense of what we should do rite...?? Well, I've seen people who are not respected their mom... or they respect their mom... but then... the mom is too demanding... or maybe the mom loves to gamble.... or maybe the mom loves to shop branded things... without looking or understanding her children situation... Keep asking money for entertainment... Said nasty words when the children didn't give her the money...

My question is... how should this child response his / her mom behaviors? Lets just assume that the children still give his/her mom some money for daily expenses.. not the entertainment though... and not for shopping... and not for gamble...

Will the children get the bad karma (if you believe in Karma)...???

Hm... this topic come to mind as I read lots of newspapers mentioned the delivery... 20 children in 1 day... ^^....???

22 Month 3 Week Old Dave

I just need to share this out. I find it very interesting of what my less than 2 years old boy can do. As usual, in the morning, he had to change his pj (pajama) to home shirts. When I were about to help him wore his shorts, he ran away. He didn't want to wear the shorts. It took me 2 minutes just to help him with his shorts. I thought that he want to run to the living room half-naked. ^^ He loves to do that, coz he finds that it's exciting if I chase him around... (Bullying his worn out mom here... )

Thus, once I attempted to put on his shorts, he cried and walked to the wardrobe, took out another shorts. Ah ha... apparently he didn't like to wear this shorts and asked me to change to another shorts... ^^
He didn't like the triangle shapes shorts and want to change to rectangle shape shorts.


The shorts on the left side is considered as shorts with triangle shape and on the right side is considered as shorts with rectangle shapes. When your baby is a lot younger and does not know how to express if they want to poo; it is advisable to go for the triangle shape shorts, though they don't look good. This is to prevent the poop fall anywhere when your baby poo.

I just found out how determine are toddlers these days..

Another cute behavior of him is to love to wear high heals.